Thing's not to do after a break up

When you fall in love, you have all the joy that comes with it. Your floating amongst the clouds and no one can bring you down. Well, there is one. The one you fell in love with.

That one person who you have been floating around with, walks up and hands you a rock and say's "Here hold this" and WHAM! straight to the ground you go. That rock is that person breaking up with you.

Now to quote a song from Captain and Tenille 'Breaking Up is Hard To Do' (I just showed my age) it's even harder on the person that didn't want the break up.

Your mind starts going in every different direction's. You can't think clearly, you're in shock, and a rush of emotions come forth almost as if they had a body of their own.
All you think about now is getting your ex back. Doing whatever it is you have to do to get them back.

Here is some things you DON'T want to do:

*Don't keep saying you are sorry. It shows insecurity, not a trait people look for.

*Don't do the "drunk dialing". Where you are constantly calling your ex trying to talk with them. Don't matter if you're drunk or not.

*Don't do the "text message terrorism". Same as drunk dialing but in text messages.

*Don't bug their friends or family. Word get's back to your ex and make's you look bad.

*Don't do "accidental meeting's". Give your ex some space and time.

*Don't go into hiding. Get out with your friends so you don't stay home moping about it.

*Don't go out and mope about it. Have a good time. You don't want to bring your friend's down while you are out with them.

Once you can get by these, then you can start working on getting your ex back.

Check out Getting Your Ex Back - Magic of Making Up to get back up in the clouds.