Is your marriage like a ship in rough seas ready to sink? If you are asking "what can I do to save my marriage" then maybe there is an iceberg ahead.

So what happened? Have you thought about what brought you to this question? You need to map out a plan before you move forward or you might find yourself looking at that same iceburg again and jumping ship.

Sit down and talk with your spouse. Get their opinion. Find out what they think about the marriage. Do they think the marriage is worth saving? By sitting down and talking you might find that both of you are wanting to save the marriage.

Now you need to decide which way you want to go to "save my marriage". Do you go to counseling or try to fix it on your own. If you try to fix it on your own, then you may look online. You can find many sites and ebooks that can give you the help you need.

Take into consideration that if you do try to fix it on your own, that you both will be looking at it from different angles. You need to make sure that both of you follow the same path and don't sway from course. That way you can both come to the same answer to "save my marriage".

If you decide to go to a marriage counselor, don't go for the first one listed. You need to look for the one that you are willing to open up to. One that both of you feel comfortable with, so that you can lay it all out on the table. You may find that 'letting it all out' with a marriage counselor is what you both needed.

Some think that a marriage counselor is the last step that they can take to save a marriage. That's not true, it can also be the first step. Or you can try both at the same time. Your marriage counselor may give you refrences to online sites and ebooks to look over. The marriage counselor may have you look online for homework purposes. Something that both of you can do together.

Which ever way you decide, make sure that both of you are willing to go that route. Decide together and then follow through, or you may find yourself asking the same question "Save My Marriage, What Can I Do?"

Save a marriage, try these 4 tips. They are all common sense , they are not difficult to do, yet many people won’t try them, not even to save a marriage.

Tip 1) Stop arguing. If you and your partner seem to argue over little things, then maybe you should learn to let it go. Don't try to start an argument every time you talk to each other. Leave it be. When you stop trying to argue with your partner, you may notice that your partner wont be arguing as much with you.

If you are trying to save a marriage, then you will have to be the one to start the process of not arguing as much. When both of you stop arguing as much, you may find that both of you want to save a marriage. So be the first to keep the peace.

Basically, If your partner thinks that the glass is half full, then don't think the glass is half empty. No need to start an argument over something little that can be blown big. Just think what's more important, saving a marriage or trying to prove a point. Let it go!

Tip 2) Try dating again. Think about how you met, where you went for your first date or maybe your partner has talked about going somewhere different. Make it a date. Try to keep things new in the marriage. Not only new things but try to keep yourself new as well. What did your partner like about you when you were dating? What do they like about you now? What was it that got the two of you together?

Remember how exciting and new everything was when you first got together. What was it that made it that way? Try to create it again, or something new that your partner is looking for. Don't fall into that proverbial rut where your partner thinks of you as boring.

Have a date night. Try to make it exciting and new just like when you first started dating. Just stay out of that rut and don't let it get boring.

Tip 3) Love your partner. Show them love the way they want to be loved. Some like to be touched a certain way, some just like to hear "I love you' more, while some just like the little things that are done for them.

No matter how you have to do it, just do it. Whether you have to stop everything your doing, grab your partner in your arms, look them in the eyes and say "I love you" or something as simple as opening the car door for them, you want to make them happy by showing them you love them.

Tip 4) If you want to help save a marriage, be physically affectionate. Hug, kiss and touch your partner as much as you can throughout the day. Could be just a brush of your hand as you walk by or sitting next to them on the couch as you watch a movie. Show them that you love being close to them by being physically affectionate.